Family Pledge of Nonviolence

Making peace must start within ourselves and in our family. Each of us, members of the _________________family, commit ourselves as best we can to become nonviolent and peaceable people.

To Respect Self and Others

To respect myself, to affirm others, and to avoid uncaring criticism, hateful words, physical attacks, and self-destructive behavior.

To Communicate Better

To share my feelings honestly, to look for safe ways to express my anger, and to work at solving problems peacefully.

To Listen

To listen carefully to one another, especially those who disagree with me, and to consider others’ feelings and needs rather than insist on having my own way.

To Forgive

To apologize and make amends when I have hurt another, to forgive others and to hold no grudges.

To Respect Nature

To treat the environment and all living things with respect and care.

To Play Selectively

To enjoy entertainment and toys that support our family’s values, and avoid entertainment that portrays violence as exciting, funny, or acceptable.

To Be Courageous

To challenge violence in all its forms whenever I encounter it, whether at home, at school, at work, or in the community, and to stand with others who are treated unfairly.